Gay foreplay

Often, foreplay is imagined as activities leading up to intercourse, or vaginal penetration, designed to make sure the person with a vulva was relaxed, turned on and lubricated enough to have sex enjoyably.

For some people, like people who experience vaginismus or for whom intercourse can sometimes be painful, foreplay for women may be more of a necessity than for others.

In gay sex, foreplay isn’t optional—it’s foundational.

Foreplay Prepares the Body

Especially for receptive partners, rushing into penetration can cause pain or injury. Flirty texts, playful touches, suggestive glances—these are all forms of foreplay that build momentum. He needs long strokes- starting from the soles of his feet, all the way to his inner thighs, and then you know where to touch, stroke and titillate.

Gamifying intimacy creates laughter, suspense, and often, unforgettable orgasms.

Ideas to Try Tonight

• Use a timer: tease each other for 10 minutes before touching genitals
• Write down fantasies and pick one from a hat
• Take turns being blindfolded and pleasured

Foreplay Isn’t Just for “Bottoms”

Let’s bust a myth: foreplay isn’t only for the receptive partner.

That they’re safe. Passion begins long before the clothes come off.

Foreplay Is About Listening—With Your Hands, Eyes, and Heart

The most powerful foreplay doesn’t come from technique—it comes from attention. Let go of pressure. Create a mood. When I say a tingling touch, I mean a touch that isn’t too rough but a little too tight would do.

Throw in an element of surprise now and then; your tongue and teeth can start working its magic now.

The ebb and tide flow

Emulate the waves, the movement of the waters with the ebb and tide this time when handling his man-meat between his legs- remember, be gentle here at first, since sensitivity is the highest.

Slide his penis into your butthole and gently slide up and down for a couple of seconds, and stop to take a deep breath, looking deep into his eyes with a gaze. Just because something is casual doesn’t mean it has to be rushed or disconnected.

Frequently Asked Questions About Gay Foreplay

How long should foreplay last?

There’s no rule.

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